Thursday, September 26, 2013

Do You Like Being Alone?

“Leave me alone” or “ I need some space” are some statements that are used in everyday life by everyone. Have you ever heard these statements or even said them? . I am sure that we all did. But why do people need this solitary time? . For me, I need some privacy from time to time, yet all of us need it. However, There are some advantages and disadvantages of being alone. 
Life is full of stressful situations, tense obligations, and bewilderment thoughts. As reaction to these problems, people tend to spend some time alone. They want to alter their mood and turned off their emotions by rethinking of all the annoying situations or even the happy confused one. This solitary time will give the person the power to adapt with new situations. It also, might help him/her in finding the right solution or it just make him/her feel more relaxed. So, in my situation if I ever felt overwhelmed, I would considerably be better after spending some time with myself.
On the other hand, too much of private time can lead to loneliness. Being lonely has different meaning than being alone. If the person feel lonely he /she might feel depressed. Thus, spending most of your time alone can lead to antisocial behaviors. Therefore, The person might get used to be alone in away that affects his/her attitude toward others.
In conclusion, being alone has positive and negative impact on the person’s lifestyle, which he/she should be aware of. Moreover, being alone doesn’t mean being lonely. It means that the person needs a space or time to think and relax. It’s a valuable time that everyone has the right to have it.  In addition to that, people should respect the need of this solitary time. 
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Sources:
http://www.differencebetween.info/difference-between-being-alone-and-being-lonely

5 comments:

  1. Your use of the word lonely and alone in the same sentence has grabbed my attention. I think I it a very well written sentence :)

    BTW I liked your new template and the pic you have posted

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  2. Hi Nada,
    Great post! I agree with you, everybody need some space to think and relax.

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  3. Hi Nada, I agree with you. I really liked when you made a comparison about being alone and being lonely!

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  4. Hello Nada, I agree with your opinion. We have to balance the time that we spend alone and the time we spend with someone. It is important to have both of them, sometimes.

    :)

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  5. Hi Nada, I am impressed with your post. You show a really balanced view and your writing is highly organized. I also like the level of discourse, and the "tone" you have here. Very nice work!

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